WelcomeI am a BACP accredited counsellor/psychotherapist, based in Blewbury (Oxfordshire, OX11), a short drive from Didcot, Wantage, Wallingford and Harwell. This website is to help you find out more about counselling and psychotherapy, how I work, and whether I might be the right counsellor for you. It may feel like a daunting task, I know it takes courage to go on this journey and hope you find these pages helpful.
It includes testimonials from clients I've worked with which may help you get some idea of what counselling and psychotherapy with me might be like.
Why counselling?You may feel alone, frightened, in pain or have a sense that nothing has meaning anymore. Or, you may find yourself preoccupied with thoughts; worrying what people might think or what might happen. You want to talk but feel that no-one you know will understand. The thought of talking about what you really feel might be scary in itself. However you know something needs to change; you're not living your life to the full.
Counselling and psychotherapy, or talking therapy, can help you; it is an opportunity for you to talk in a way that won't affect family members or friends as well as a way of gaining new perspectives. You will also discover how what you feel may help you make well informed decisions with healthy outcomes; that they can help and you don't need to be afraid of them.
Counselling becomming less of a stigmaMore people are seeking help from a counsellor or psychotherapist, and there’s growing public awareness that we need to take care of our emotional health, the BACP's 2014 national public attitudes survey shows. The survey was conducted by Ipsos MORI in March. They surveyed 2084 adults aged 16–75 from across the UK and 28 per cent said they had consulted a counsellor/psychotherapist, seven per cent more than in 2010, when the previous survey was carried out. Overall, 54 per cent had sought help from a counsellor or psychotherapist or knew a family member, friend or work colleague who had. In the 2004 survey, 60 per cent of people agreed that ‘people today spend too much time dwelling on their emotional difficulties; in 2014 this had dropped to 39 per cent.
How do you work?I believe we are all different. Counselling is not a mechanical process. This means that certain counselling or therapy styles suit some people more than others. As a counsellor/psychotherapist in Oxfordshire I practice integrative therapy, meaning I draw from a range of approaches, including behavioural, person centred and mindfulness, to provide what feels right for you. In addition I integrate findings from the new discipline of affective neuroscience.
How long does it take?You may only need a short period of counselling, or benefit from a little more time in psychotherapy. You go along your journey at a pace that feels right for you and we will, on a regular basis, reflect on progress together.
You can read more on the page with testimonials how other people experienced counselling and psychotherapy with me.
QualificationsI am accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy as a counsellor/psychotherapist in Oxfordshire (BACP) and registered with the United Kingdom Register of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (UKRCP). Being registered means I have done the requisite training and achieved and maintain the professional qualifications necessary for good practice.
I'm originally from the Netherlands and welcome Dutch speaking clients. I lived in London for many years where I worked for Victim Support, as a school counsellor for Place2be and in private practice before moving to Blewbury (near Didcot, Wallingford, Wantage and Goring).
Click (here) for more details about my qualifications. You can also see an Interview with me about domestic violence on YouTube.